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Ella Mai — “Tell Her” Lyrics & Meaning: say-my-name stakes
“Tell Her” opens with a clear ask and a calm stare. The verses sketch a toxic situation with lines crossed, an ex who won’t fade, and the hook encapsulates the demand.
“tell her you love me, put no one above me” and “say my name, say my name.”
It dropped on 29 August 2025 via 10 Summers/Interscope, with Mustard steering the production.
The mix puts her out front while the groove glides. A rubbery low end and a patient clap pattern keep the tempo unhurried; bright keys flicker at the edges; a clipped guitar figure nudges the hook; a soft synth bloom opens the bridge, and then the melody loops back in. Nothing crowds the vocal, which makes sense.
She isn’t pleading, she wants proof, out loud. The chorus leans on an obvious echo of Destiny’s Child’s “Say My Name,” and the flip is tidy: instead of suspicion spiralling, she draws a line and asks him to make it public.
Because of that nod, the Destiny’s Child writers are credited alongside Ella Mai and Mustard on the track.
Early listener chatter splits two ways: some hear a confident return to that Ella-Mai/Mustard pocket; others call it playlist-friendly and want something more.
Both reads have merit, especially for a late-summer single trying to make its mark.
If you’ve followed her since EP 3 last year and the Heart On My Sleeve run before that, “Tell Her” feels like the reset, less glow, more ground rules, without losing the slow-burn charm that made “Boo’d Up” stick. It’s a short, steady request for clarity, not a plea.
Tell Her turns a classic prompt into a public test; name her, or stop juggling old ties.
Bottom line it has its own identity not overly biting on Say My Name to stick, and as it stands the message is unmistakable and replay-ready.
