Eminem is one of the most influential and controversial rappers of all time. His songs are known for their complex wordplay, vivid storytelling, and emotional honesty. One of his most personal and heartfelt songs is Mockingbird, a track from his fifth studio album Encore, released in 2004.
In this article, we explore the meaning, symbolism, and cultural impact of Mockingbird, one of Eminem’s most beloved and acclaimed songs. We will analyse the lyrics, the music video, and the historical context of the song. We will also look at how Mockingbird has inspired other artists and fans over the years.
What is Mockingbird about?
Mockingbird is a song dedicated to Eminem’s two daughters, Hailie Jade and Alaina Marie (also known as Lainie), who were 9 and 10 years old at the time. The song is a heartfelt apology and a promise from Eminem to his daughters, who had to endure a lot of hardships and struggles growing up with their famous father.
The song begins with Eminem telling his daughters to “straighten up” and “stiffen up that upper lip”, as he tries to comfort them and explain why their lives are so chaotic and difficult.
Hailie, I know you miss your Mom, and I know you miss your Dad
When I’m gone, but I’m tryin’ to give you the life that I never had
I can see you’re sad, even when you smile, even when you laugh
I can see it in your eyes, deep inside you wanna cry
‘Cause you’re scared, I ain’t there, Daddy’s wit’ you in your prayers
No more cryin’, wipe them tears, Daddy’s here, no more nightmares
We gon’ pull together through it, we gon’ do it
Lainie, Uncle’s crazy, ain’t he? Yeah, but he loves you, girl, and you better know it
We’re all we got in this world when it spins, when it swirls
When it whirls, when it twirls, two little beautiful girls
Lookin’ puzzled, in a daze, I know it’s confusin’ you
Daddy’s always on the move, Mama’s always on the news
I try to keep you sheltered from it, but somehow it seems
The harder that I try to do that, the more it backfires on me
All the things growin’ up as Daddy that he had to see
Daddy don’t want you to see, but you see just as much as he did
We did not plan it to be this way, your mother and me
But things have got so bad between us, I don’t see us ever bein’
Together ever again, like we used to be when we was teenagers
But then, of course, everything always happens for a reason
I guess it was never meant to be
But it’s just somethin’ we have no control over, and that’s what destiny is
But no more worries, rest your head and go to sleep
Maybe one day we’ll wake up and this’ll all just be a dream
He acknowledges that they miss their mom (Kimberly Scott, Eminem’s ex-wife) and their dad (Eminem himself) when he’s gone on tour or working on his music. He also admits that he’s trying to give them the life that he never had, but he also realises that he’s exposing them to a lot of negative media attention and criticism.
He then recounts some of the painful memories that he and his daughters had to face, such as:
- The constant break-ins and robberies at their homes
- The piggy bank that Kim saved for their college fund was stolen
- The Christmas when Eminem had no money to buy them presents
- The divorce and custody battles between Eminem and Kim
- The drug addiction and suicide attempt of Kim
- The death threats and lawsuits that Eminem faced from his enemies
Throughout the song, Eminem repeatedly tells his daughters to “hush” and “don’t you cry“, as he tries to reassure them that everything will be alright. He also tells them that he loves them more than anything in the world and that he’s always there for them in their prayers. He also expresses his hope that one day they will wake up and realise that all of this was just a bad dream.
The chorus of the song is based on a traditional lullaby called Mockingbird, which was popularised by Inez and Charlie Foxx in 1963. The original song is about a couple who promise to buy each other gifts if their mockingbird won’t sing.
Now hush, little baby, don’t you cry
Everything’s gonna be alright
Stiffen that upper lip up, little lady, I told ya
Daddy’s here to hold ya through the night
I know Mommy’s not here right now and we don’t know why
We feel how we feel inside
It may seem a little crazy, pretty baby
But I promise Mama’s gon’ be alright
Eminem adapts the lyrics to fit his situation, as he promises to hold his daughters through the night if their mother won’t be alright.
Heh, it’s funny
I remember back one year when Daddy had no money
Mommy wrapped the Christmas presents up and stuck ’em under the tree
And said some of ’em were from me ’cause Daddy couldn’t buy ’em
I’ll never forget that Christmas, I sat up the whole night crying
‘Cause Daddy felt like a bum—see, Daddy had a job
But his job was to keep the food on the table for you and Mom
And at the time, every house that we lived in
Either kept gettin’ broken into and robbed or shot up on the block
And your Mom was savin’ money for you in a jar
Tryin’ to start a piggy bank for you so you could go to college
Almost had a thousand dollars, ’til someone broke in and stole it
And I know it hurt so bad it broke your Mama’s heart
And it seemed like everything was just startin’ to fall apart
Mom and Dad was arguin’ a lot
So Mama moved back on to Chalmers in the flat, one-bedroom apartment
And Dad moved back to the other side of 8 Mile on Novara
And that’s when Daddy went to California with his CD
And met Dr. Dre, and flew you and Mama out to see me
But Daddy had to work, you and Mama had to leave me
Then you started seein’ Daddy on the TV
And Mama didn’t like it
And you and Lainie were too young to understand it
Papa was a rolling stone, Mama developed a habit
And it all happened too fast for either one of us to grab it
I’m just sorry you were there and had to witness it firsthand
‘Cause all I ever wanted to do was just make you proud
Now I’m sittin’ in this empty house just reminiscin’
Lookin’ at your baby pictures, it just trips me out
To see how much you both have grown, it’s almost like you’re sisters now
Wow, guess you pretty much are, and Daddy’s still here
Lainie, I’m talkin’ to you too, Daddy’s still here
I like the sound of that, yeah, it’s got a ring to it, don’t it?
Shh! Mama’s only gone for the moment
The title of the song also has a symbolic meaning, as mockingbirds are known for their ability to mimic other sounds and voices. This could represent how Eminem feels like he has to put on a different persona for his fans and critics while hiding his true feelings and emotions. It could also represent how his daughters have to cope with the pressure and expectations of being related to a famous rapper.
What is the music video of Mockingbird like?
The music video for Mockingbird was directed by Quig, who also worked on other Eminem videos such as Stan, Lose Yourself, and Cleanin’ Out My Closet. The video features home footage of Eminem with his daughters, as well as scenes from his concerts, interviews, court hearings, and other events from his life. The video also shows some of the headlines and articles that criticised Eminem for his music and personal life.
The video is meant to show the contrast between Eminem’s public image and his private life, as well as the impact that his fame has on his family. The video also emphasises the love and bond that Eminem has with his daughters, as he hugs them, plays with them, reads to them, and watches over them.
The video ends with a scene where Eminem puts Hailie to bed and kisses her goodnight while Lainie watches from another room. The final shot shows Eminem walking away from the camera while a voice-over says “I love you girls more than anything in this world“.
What is the cultural influence of Mockingbird?
Mockingbird is not only a personal song for Eminem and his daughters but also a cultural phenomenon that has touched millions of listeners around the world. The song has been praised for its lyrical and musical quality, as well as its emotional impact and social relevance.
The song has been recognised as one of Eminem’s best and most influential songs by critics and fans alike. It has received several awards and nominations, such as:
- A Grammy nomination for Best Rap Solo Performance in 2006
- An MTV Video Music Award nomination for Best Video from a Film in 2005 (for the film 8 Mile)
- A Billboard Music Award for Hot Rap Track in 2005
- A Teen Choice Award for Choice Rap Track in 2005
The song has also been covered and sampled by other artists, such as:
- Yelawolf, who sampled the chorus of Mockingbird in his song Best Friend featuring Eminem in 2015
- Machine Gun Kelly, who covered Mockingbird in his mixtape Lace Up in 2012
- E1, who remixed Mockingbird in his song Mockingbird (Remix) in 2020
- James Arthur, who performed Mockingbird on The X Factor UK in 2012
The song has also inspired many fans to create their versions, remixes, parodies, and tributes to Mockingbird on platforms such as YouTube, TikTok, and SoundCloud. Some of these fan-made creations have gone viral and received millions of views and likes.
Mockingbird, which holds the title of the most-streamed song from its era across all genres and is now the most-streamed hip-hop song on the platform, has reached the remarkable milestone of 1 billion Spotify streams. A year ago, no one could have anticipated this, as the song didn’t even rank among Eminem’s Top 10 most-streamed tracks. Now, Mockingbird is Eminems seventh track to hit this milestone, achieving it faster than Rap God.
The song has also been used as a source of education and inspiration for students and teachers. For example, the song has been analysed and discussed in literature and music classes, as well as in social studies and history classes. The song has also been used as a tool to teach about topics such as racism, discrimination, justice, family, love, and resilience.
The song has also been referenced and quoted in various media forms, such as books, films, TV shows, podcasts, and articles. For example, the song has been mentioned or featured in:
- To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee is a classic novel that shares the same title and theme as Eminem’s song
- The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas is a young adult novel that deals with racism and police brutality
- The Simpsons Movie by Matt Groening, an animated comedy film that parodies Eminem’s song
- The Rap Year Book by Shea Serrano, a book that chronicles the most important rap songs from 1979 to 2014
- NPR Books by Lynn Neary, a radio programme that explores the cultural impact of To Kill a Mockingbird and Eminem’s song
Mockingbird is more than just a song; it is a cultural icon that has transcended genres, generations, and boundaries. It is a song that speaks to the human condition and the struggles and joys of life. It is a song that celebrates the power of love and the courage to do the right thing. It is a song that will continue to be America’s song for years to come.
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